Reflexions Fall 2007 Automne

Protecting Children on the Internet

 

The internet can be a great resource for children, however, parents may not realize the many dangers that children face online. Internet abduction, intimidation, luring and sexual exploitation are very real risks.

Tips for Parents

1. Be aware of the dangers

Many parents are aware that there are dangers involved in allowing their children to use the internet but few adults realize the extent to which children and youth have access to the internet and how little they confide in their parents.

Learn more about what websites your children visit, what they use the internet for and the people they are talking to. Access to the internet is available in many places, while children and youth may be practicing internet safety at home under their parents’ supervision, they may be less careful when sign the messaging services on cell phones, in school computer labs and friends’ homes.

2. Talk to your child about internet safety

Encourage open and honest discussion about your children’s online activity.

Explain your concerns, tell your child why it is important that you know who they are talking to and what they are doing on the interne. Be sure they know how dangerous it is to meet faceto face with people they have met through the internet.

There are many online resources to help parents and children learn about online safety. Take advantage of the fact sheets, videos and activities to discuss these important issues with Internet 101 site. It is an agreement between children and parents on what is expected to protect children from the risks and dangers online.

3. Provide a safe environment for computer use

Limit computer access and ensure that an adult is able to supervise. Keep your home computer in the family room, kitchen or other open space instead of the bedroom or office. Pay special attention if your children use webcams, digital cameras and cell phones.

4. Use software and technology to protect children and limit access

girl working on the computerThere are many easy to use programs to help you: - Keep track of your children’s computer use - Block inappropriate sites - Use passwords and locks to limit access.

5. Report any inappropriate or suspicious activity

Report online sexual exploitation of children to the national tip line at www.cybertip.ca or by calling the toll free line at 1-866-658-9022. This includes pictures, webcams, and emails.

If you think a child is in immediate danger or risk, contact your local police.

Source: Public legal Education and Information Services of New Brunswick’s new booklet, Child Abuse – Recognize it, Report it, Prevent it!

While parents would like to believe that their teens are aware of the dangers online the Canada Security Council reports that:

Forty-three percent of teens ages 15 to17 have been asked by someone they have met on the Net
to meet in person. Of those, one in five accepted; and of that group, one in five went alone.

One in five 11-12 year-olds reported receiving email messages that have bothered or frightened them. Of those, only 20 percent told an adult.”

Canada Safety Council, www.safety-council.org