National Adult Literacy Database

January 30, 2006

Here is Tammy's story from Rabbittown Learners' Program, in St. John's, Newfoundland and Labrador.

My Life

by Tammy A.

The happiest time of my life was when I had Alexander. I was confused because I was not sure that I was going to keep the baby. I did not have a job or my grade twelve. The baby was a big change in our lifestyle. The baby's dad talked me into keeping him. So we had to do some changing very quickly. I decided to stay home with my mom and raise the baby. The baby's dad helped me as much as he could. I was worried about him because he was very sick. I was very strung out between taking care of the baby and making sure that the baby's dad was okay. My mom was a lot of help to me.

When the baby turned eight months old the baby's dad died. Then it was twice as hard because I had the baby to take care of. Also I had the baby's dad's death to deal with. My mom had to give me the help to move on. I could not get over the death for a long time. But I had to be strong for the baby. Sometimes reminders still make me upset. I think it is time to get over the death and get on with my life. So I decided to go back to school and get my grade twelve to give Alexander a better life. Alexander is now four years old and he is very close to me and his nanny.

I am very proud of myself that I am back in school because it will make a better life for me also. After I finish my grade twelve I am hoping to get a good trade so Alexander and I can live comfortably on our own.